Monday, 24 December 2012

This is a message I received this morning from someone and it truly made my day:

"You are the most inspirational person I have ever had the blessing to meet. Even with just Facebook statuses, you can remind me to be thankful for what I have . You are a role model to me and inspire me to do what is good for me, but most of all help out others! I am blessed to have you in my life! You are gorgeous, inside and out. Keep shining, and inspiring<3 And most of all, thank you!"

- Anonymous

Thursday, 6 December 2012

If your sitting down right now, feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for someone to tell you that they believe in you cause you've lost all sense of motivation, STOP, your going to be waiting a really long time. When you start believing and having confidence in yourself, you will automatically give others permission to do the same. And even then it won't matter, because the point is you have to believe in yourself, and once you do, even if the whole world is standing on the other side of the line, it won't matter, cause YOU BELIEVE IN YOU

Wednesday, 28 November 2012

Let go...

You hold my heart picture and wallpaperWhen it comes to love do not be desperate, having someone just for the sake of having someone isn't the right choice. Don't just settle for anyone, just to settle. Once you stop searching for your true love and you stop acting desperate about it, that's when you'll true love will find you. And before any of that, until you learn to love yourself, no one will fall in love with you.

Monday, 15 October 2012


As he said those three words, I pretended not to hear
Just because he said it, does not mean it made it real
My mom used to always tell me, have faith over fear
She said “Don’t think with your heart, because heartaches don’t heal”
She said “Never focus on your heart, never pay attention to what you feel”
Sometimes your hearts gets the best of you, but remember what you may feel, may not always be real
She constantly reminded me that “Action speaks louder than words, and that’s the real deal.”
She warned me that my heart is not to be played with & that when it comes to men, it should be as hard as steel
So that no one can break it, and so that it is not so easy to reel
She said “The key to your heart, should not be so easy to steal”
She said “The man that will love you will be head over heels”.
No need to play desperate,  just be yourself and be real
But don’t be so fooled, your idea of love may not be ideal
It will take patience, only time will reveal
If you try and force things to happen, it will appear all surreal

Thursday, 6 September 2012


Part of of being a mature adult is being able to listen and understand other opinions and point of views coming from different people. You don't necessarily have to agree with them but listening to them means that you are acknowledging the fact that they are individuals, just like you are, who want their voices to be heard and just like you they are eager to speak their mind. Don't be ignorant. We
 all have different opinions. Just because you do not agree with them, it does not give you the right to stop someone else from expressing theirs. In the end no one is the same. Thus, different people= different perspectives, different opinions and different point of views. Take a minute to listen, and in return I'm sure that individual will do the same.# Respect. C'est la vie mon ami. We are all equal.

Thursday, 19 July 2012

Take a second to grasp the moment. Take a second to appreciate what you have. Take a moment to count your blessings. Life is so precious. Life is so beautiful. Life is a blessing. Life is worth living. Life is a gift. Put a smile on. Spread that smile around. Appreciate all you have. Live the moment to it's fullest. Live your life, because it's worth it. Cease to just exist, live, live and live, share some, be ready to give

Tuesday, 26 June 2012

You can't always get what you want, and that's okay. You have to learn that sometimes not getting what you want when you want it, is part of the universe's work. We often worry about not being able to receive what we want when we want it because were afraid that there is nothing better to come forth. But there is. It's all a matter of the right time. Like my mom always says; "Do the right thing in the right time to get the right result and it will be deserving". Life is a big equation, the more complicated the equation gets, the more difficult it is to resolve it. The simpler the equation becomes, the easier it is to understand and figure it out. And that life. So next time, something does not go the way you had hoped it to go, don't get upset, don't work yourself up about it, it's simply not the right time for it to happen.  

Thursday, 5 January 2012

Letting go...

Why are we so afraid of letting go of people, letting go of old habits, of old memories, of things that hurt us, and especially people that hurt us. Why is it so easy to become attached to someone and yet it is so hard to let go of that person. The only answer is because were human. But even that is no excuse for letting fear take over our lives. Fear of letting go, fear of forgetting, fear of moving on, fear of taking risks in life, risks of doing bigger things for yourself, fear of living. When in the end the only thing one must fear is God and no other. Make the choice to live, to enjoy living, to let go of the things that aren't letting you move on, things that are making you live in fear and are stopping you from living your life in happiness. All this negativity people have brought into your life is simply because you have let them in it, is a choice you and only you can make, no one can force you, and no one can bring you down with out your permission. Just as easy it was for you to let them in your life and all this negativity that came with them, it is just as easy for you to make the choice of letting go and turning to a more positive and graceful life. It's never too late to live, to turn a new page, start a new beginning, let go and move on. Fear is a prison, and you have the key to be free. Amen